Books & Workbooks

Children

Worried No More: Help and Hope for Anxious Children

By: Aureen Pinto Wagner, Ph.D

For Parents, School and Healthcare Professionals, this book provides clear and practical strategies for dealing with a variety of anxiety problems including generalized anxiety, separation anxiety and school refusal.

What to Do When Your Child Has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder:  Strategies and Solutions

By: Aureen Pinto Wagner, Ph.D

Another practical book that has clear, easy to understand strategies for dealing with OCD.

The Worried Child: Recognizing Anxiety in Children and Helping Them Heal

By: Paul Foxman, Ph.D

Author Paul Foxman believes there are 3 ingredients that contribute to anxiety in children:  biological sensitivity, personality, and stress overload.  He provides strategies to raise a child’s self-confidence and improve social and self-control skills.

What to Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck: A Kid’s Guide To Overcoming OCD

By: Dawn Huebner, Ph.D

This workbook is specifically designed for children to use in therapy or with their parents.  The  author uses kid-friendly examples to help children understand OCD and specific tasks to help them manage the disorder.  There are also workbooks that cover worry, negativity (grumbling), and temper problems.

Adolescents & Teens

Parenting the New Teen in the Age of Anxiety: A Complete Guide to Your Child’s Stressed, Depressed, Expanded, Amazing Adolescence (Parenting Tips, Raising Teenagers, Gift for Parents)

By: John Duffy, Ph.D.

“If you are a parent―or have children in your life in any significant way and that you love―this book is required reading.” ―Michael Hainey, author of New York Times bestseller After Visiting Friends

Book Authority’s Best Parenting Book of All Time Awards

#1 Best Seller in School Age Children, Parenting Teenagers, Child Psychology, Adolescent Psychology, Anxieties & Phobias, and Hyperactivity

A parenting wake-up call that could change how you raise your child.

Learn about the “New Teen” and how to adjust your parenting skills. Strategies for parenting teens are now beginning years too late. Kids are growing up with nearly unlimited access to social media and the internet, and unprecedented academic, social, and familial stressors. Starting as early as eight years old, children are exposed to information, thought, and emotion they are unprepared to process.

Unprecedented teenage depression and anxiety. Because of the exposure they face, kids are emotionally overwhelmed at a young age and often are continuing to search for a sense of self well into their twenties.

Urgent advice for parents of teens. Dr. John Duffy’s parenting book is a necessary guide that addresses the hidden phenomenon of the changing teenage brain. Dr. Duffy, a nationally recognized expert in parenting for nearly twenty-five years, provides a guidebook for parents raising children who are growing up quickly and dealing with unresolved adolescent issues that can lead to anxiety and depression.

Inside you will:

  • Realize the overwhelming circumstances of today’s teens and understand the changing landscape of adolescence
  • Find a revised, conscious parenting plan that addresses the needs of the New Teen
  • Discover the joy in parenting again by reclaiming the role of your teen’s ally, guide, and consultant

Overcoming Anticipatory Anxiety: A CBT Guide for Moving past Chronic Indecisiveness, Avoidance, and Catastrophic Thinking

By: Sally Winston Psy.D.

Get ahead of your anticipatory anxiety, and start living with flexibility and peace of mind.

Do you automatically assume the worst-case-scenario when faced with difficulty? Do you stress about situations that haven’t happened yet, or find yourself anticipating disaster around every corner? Does the prospect of making a decision leave you feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed? From subtle avoidance behaviors to the most nightmarish terrors, anticipatory anxiety is the engine that drives it all. Understanding how this hidden enemy tricks you, and, most importantly, how to overcome it, will liberate you to live a more flexible and joyful life.

In Overcoming Anticipatory Anxiety, two anxiety experts team up to teach you how to manage your overactive imagination, limit future-based thinking, face your fears, make decisions, and live with more freedom and joy. This must-have guide is grounded in the authors’ innovative and easy-to-remember DANCE model:

  • Discern your anticipatory anxiety
  • Accept doubts and discomfort
  • No struggling or avoiding
  • Commit to proceed
  • Embrace the present as it is, so you can get on with your life

Your relationship with your worries and imagination will shift, so that you can focus on what is genuinely important.

It’s time to stop worrying about what might happen, start facing your fears, rein in your self-defeating imagination, and live fully in the moment. Get this book and discover the motivation and skills needed to take charge of your anticipatory anxiety.

Anxiety Relief for Teens: Essential CBT Skills and Mindfulness Practices to Overcome Anxiety and Stress

By: Regine Galanti, Ph.D.

Workbook focused on anxiety relief through utilization of mindfulness skills, learning triggers and warning signs as well as other coping skills to decrease anxiety.

Adults

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook, Fifth edition.

By: Edmund J. Bourne, Ph.D

The Fifth edition of this book has the latest anxiety research and information about current medications.  It also includes new therapeutic techniques to treat anxiety.

Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

By: David Burns, M.D.

Eminent psychiatrist, Dr. David Burns, outlines scientifically proven techniques to help develop a positive outlook on life and deal with symptoms of Depression and Anxiety.  The book also includes an all new “Consumer’s Guide to Anti-Depressant Drugs.”

The Feeling Good Handbook

By: David Burns, M.D.

This is the sequel to “Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy” and discusses techniques and exercises to help overcome depression and anxiety.

10 Best Ever Depression Management Techniques

By: Margaret Wehrenberg, Psy.D

Addressing physical, emotional and behavioral symptoms, Dr. Wehrenberg draws on basic brain science to highlight the top 10 depression defeating tips.  She also has a book “10 Best Ever Anxiety Management Techniques.”

Children

Taking Charge of ADHD: The Complete and Authoritative Guide for Parents (Revised Edition)

By: Russell Barkley, Ph.D., ABPP, ABCN

From internationally renowned ADHD expert Russell Barkley, this book provides step-by-step  behavior management techniques for children, current information on medications and strategies that help children succeed at school and in social situations.

The ADHD Workbook for Kids: Helping Children gain Self-Confidence, Social Skills and Self-Control

By: Lawrence Shapiro

This workbook includes more than forty activities for kids developed by Child Psychologist Lawrence Shapiro.  These activities can help your child with ADHD handle everyday tasks, make friends, and build self-esteem.

Thriving with ADHD Workbook for Kids: 60 Fun Activities to Help Children Self-Regulate, Focus, and Succeed

By: Kelli Miller, M.S.W., LCSW

Help your child understand and manage their ADHD with an engaging workbook full of activities for kids ages 7 to 12.

Mindfulness for Kids with ADHD: Skills to Help Children Focus, Succeed in School, and Make Friends

By: Debra Burdick, M.S.W., LCSW

Mindfulness for Kids with ADHD offers fun and accessible mindfulness exercises designed to help kids with ADHD successfully navigate all the areas of life, from making friends and doing well in school to establishing healthy habits and limiting screen time.

Mindful Parenting for ADHD: A Guide to Cultivating Calm, Reducing Stress, and Helping Children Thrive

By: Mark Bertin MD

In this book, a developmental pediatrician presents a proven-effective program for helping both you and your child with ADHD stay cool and collected while remaining flexible, resilient, and mindful.

Adolescents & Teens

Teenagers with ADHD-A parent’s guide

By: Chris Zeigler Dendy

This book discusses the characteristics of ADHD in teenagers and methods for overcoming these difficulties.  Throughout the book are the voices of teens, parents, teachers and professionals who describe the peaks and valleys of life with ADHD and provides insight and support.

Adults

Taking Charge of Adult ADHD

By: Russell Barkley Ph.D., ABPP, ABCN

Dr. Barkley, a leading researcher in ADHD, provides step-by-step strategies for managing  symptoms and reducing their harmful impact.  Specific techniques are presented for overcoming challenges with work, relationships, and finances.

The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps

By: Melissa Orlov

This book was awarded “Best Psychology Book of 2010,” by Foreword Reviews.  The author discusses specific problems in marriage when one spouse has ADHD such as: nagging, intimacy problems, sudden anger, and memory issues.

Your Brain’s Not Broken: Strategies for Navigating Your Emotions and Life with ADHD

By: Tamara Rosier, Ph.D.

If you have ADHD, your brain doesn’t work in the same way as a “normal” or neurotypical brain does because it’s wired differently. This difference in circuitry is not somehow wrong, incomplete, or shameful. However, it does present you with significant challenges like time management, organization skills, forgetfulness, trouble completing tasks, mood swings, and relationship problems.

A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers

By: Sari Solden, M.S. & Michelle Frank, Psy.D.

Live boldly as a woman with ADHD! This radical guide will show you how to cultivate your individual strengths, honor your neurodiversity, and learn to communicate with confidence and clarity.

If you are a woman with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), you’ve probably known—all your life—that you’re different. As girls, we learn which behaviors, thinking, learning, and working styles are preferred, which are accepted and tolerated, and which are frowned upon. These preferences are communicated in innumerable ways—from media and books to our first-grade classroom to conversations with our classmates and parents.

The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD

By: Melissa Orlov &  Nancie Kohlenberger, LMFT 

More and more often, adults are realizing that the reason they are struggling so much in their relationship is that they are impacted by previously undiagnosed adult ADHD. Learning how to interact around ADHD symptoms is often the difference between joy together and chronic anger and frustration. So The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD lays out the most important strategies couples can use – right now – to rebuild trust, fight less, disagree more productively, get the attention they deserve, and rebuild intimacy in their relationship. These are strategies honed over years of working specifically with couples impacted by ADHD, and demonstrated to change lives for the better. ‘Thrive’ is the go-to book for couples struggling with ADHD who want to actively work to improve their relationship

ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction–from Childhood through Adulthood

By: Edward M. Hallowell M.D.&  John J. Ratey M.D.

A revolutionary new approach to ADD/ADHD featuring cutting-edge research and strategies to help readers thrive, by the bestselling authors of the seminal books Driven to Distraction and Delivered from Distraction

“An inspired road map for living with a distractible brain . . . If you or your child suffer from ADHD, this book should be on your shelf. It will give you courage and hope.”—Michael Thompson, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling co-author of Raising Cain

World-renowned authors Dr. Edward M. Hallowell and Dr. John J. Ratey literally “wrote the book” on ADD/ADHD more than two decades ago. Their bestseller, Driven to Distraction, largely introduced this diagnosis to the public and sold more than a million copies along the way.

Outside the Box: Rethinking Add/Adhd in Children and Adults – a Practical Guide

By: Thomas E Brown Ph.D.

Outside the Box: Rethinking ADD/ADHD in Children and Adults A Practical Guide assails decades-old assumptions and presents an up-to-date, science-based understanding of this disorder that causes significant impairment and considerable suffering for about 8% to 10% of children and at least 5% of adults.

Designed for the layperson, as well as for clinicians, the book offers science-based answers in plain, understandable language to questions such as the following: Why are those with ADD/ADHD able to focus very well on a few tasks in which they have strong interest but are unable to focus adequately on many other tasks they recognize as important? How is ADHD like having erectile dysfunction of the mind? Is medication treatment for ADHD more or less risky than its not being treated with medicine?

Both down-to-earth and cutting-edge, Outside the Box: Rethinking ADD/ADHD in Children and Adults A Practical Guide highlights multiple perspectives on how this disorder affects children and adults who suffer from it, as well as those who love and care for them.

Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook by Kreger and Shirley

By: Paul T. Mason, M.S. and Randi Kreger

A book for family members who live with or have relationships with those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

By: Nedra Glover Tawwab

Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them–in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do “healthy boundaries” really mean–and how can we successfully express our needs, say “no,” and be assertive without offending others?

Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today’s world. In a relatable and inclusive tone, Set Boundaries, Find Peace presents simple-yet-powerful ways to establish healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Rooted in the latest research and best practices used in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), these techniques help us identify and express our needs clearly and without apology–and unravel a root problem behind codependency, power struggles, anxiety, depression, burnout, and more.

A Little Spot of Emotion (Series)

By: Diane Alber

Emotions are complex and difficult to explain – even for grown-ups! This box set is educators and parents’ perfect helping hand in explaining basic emotions. The Little SPOT of Emotion Box Set teaches about happiness, sadness, anger, anxiety, love, confidence, peacefulness and a mix of it all through a little scribble! (Ages 3-7)

What to Do When Your Temper Flares: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Problems With Anger

By: Dawn Huebner

This book guides children and their parents through the cognitive-behavioral techniques used to treat problems with anger. Engaging examples, lively illustrations, and step-by-step instructions teach children a set of “anger dowsing” methods aimed at cooling angry thoughts and controlling angry actions, resulting in calmer, more effective kids.

What to Do When You Worry Too Much: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Anxiety

By: Dawn Huebner

Lively metaphors and humorous illustrations make the concepts and strategies easy to understand, while clear how-to steps and prompts to draw and write help children to master new skills related to reducing anxiety. This interactive self-help book is the complete resource for educating, motivating, and empowering kids to overcoming their overgrown worries.

The ACT Workbook for Kids: Fun Activities to Help You Deal with Worry, Sadness, and Anger Using Acceptance and Commitment

By: Tamar D. Black, Ph.D.

The ACT Workbook for Kids helps children manage emotions like worry, sadness, and anger using fun, evidence-based activities based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). These activities teach kids practical skills to balance their emotions at home, school, and in social situations, making it easier for them to handle stress and improve self-esteem.

Differently Wired: A Parent’s Guide to Raising an Atypical Child with Confidence and Hope

By: Deborah Reber

A how-to, a manifesto, and a wise and reassuring companion for parents of neuroatypical children, who often feel that they have no place to turn. How to stay open, pay attention, and become an exceptional parent to your exceptional child.

Flooded: A Brain-Based Guide to Help Children Regulate Emotions

By: Allison Edwards

In this book, you’ll get an overview of how the brain interacts with emotions, an understanding of the role of trauma in emotional health, and an explanation of why children can’t respond rationally in stressful circumstances. You will learn techniques for teaching children how to regulate emotions.

Chronic Pain Reset: 30 Days of Activities, Practices, and Skills to Help You Thrive 

By: Afton Hassett Psy.D.

This guide shows how your brain processes pain and how simple actions can improve chronic pain. Chronic Pain Reset helps you evaluate your pain and offers enjoyable, daily strategies.

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

By: Melody Beattie

Explores codependency through activities, exercises and personal reflections as ways to address setting boundaries and gaining insight to healthy relationships.

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

By: Dr. Nicole LePera

In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for SelfHealing as well as an essential guide to creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr. LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction—activating harmful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell.

Feeling Better: CBT Workbook for Teens

By: Rachel Hutt, Ph.D

Workbook that guides teens through learning and exploring their anxiety/depressive symptoms while learning skills to manage these experiences.

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find–and Keep–Love

By: Amir Levine M.D., Rachel Heller M.A.

We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle through adult attachment. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that everyone behaves in one of three distinct ways while in a relationship:

• Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back
• Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness
• Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By: John Gottman

Explores 8 different types of dates to improve connection and communication between couples. This can be utilized for new couples as well as established couples to reinforce love maps and turning towards each other.

Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live) 

By: Eve Rodsky

A time- and anxiety-saving system that offers couples a completely new way to divvy up domestic responsibilities.This game means rebalancing your home life, reigniting your relationship with your significant other, and reclaiming the time to develop the skills and passions that keep you interested and interesting. Stop drowning in to-dos and lose some of that invisible workload that’s pulling you down.

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

By: Sue Johnson, Ph.D.

This book details Johnson’s approach for understanding and resolving couples’ problems. Johnson focuses on how couples get stuck in negative patterns of interaction, and how they can extricate themselves from these cycles. Johnson relies on Attachment Theory to help understand why couples become stuck in dysfunctional and problematic patterns that damage their relationships.

10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage

By: John Gottman, Ph.D

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The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need To Know To Make Love Work.

By: Terrence Real

Terrence Real shows women how to master the new rules of the 21st century by offering them effective tools to help them create the truly intimate relationship they desire.  He identifies 5  non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship.

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

By: Jessica Fern

Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you’re striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner?

Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide.

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

By: John Gottman, Ph.D

Psychologist John Gottman has spent over 20 years studying what makes a marriage last.  He discusses each principle in depth with case examples from his research.  He also includes self-assessment exercises and strategies to help strengthen your marriage.

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail . . . and How You Can Make Yours Last.

By: John Gottman, Ph.D

This book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to determine what kind of marriage you have, your strengths and weaknesses and specific actions to take to help your marriage.

Overcoming Binge Eating: The Proven Program to Learn Why You Binge and How You Can Stop

By: Christopher G. Fairburn

Explores ways to understand the urges to binge eating, gaining control over when and what to eat, breaking free of habits that contribute to binge eating and improving body image to maintain healthy habits.

The Body Image Workbook for Teens: Activities to Help Girls Develop a Healthy Body Image in an Image-Obsessed World

By: Julia V. Taylor Ph.D.

In The Body Image Workbook for Teens, you’ll find practical exercises and tips that address the most common factors that can lead to negative body image, including: comparison, negative self-talk, unrealistic media images, societal and family pressures, perfectionism, toxic friendships, and a fear of disappointing others. You’ll also learn powerful coping strategies to deal with the daily, intense pressures of being a teenage girl.

Fat Politics: The Real Story behind America’s Obesity Epidemic

By: J. Eric Oliver

In reviewing the scientific evidence, Oliver shows there is little proof that obesity causes so much disease and death or that losing weight is what makes people healthier. Our concern with obesity, he writes, is fueled more by social prejudice, bureaucratic politics, and industry profit than by scientific fact. Misinformation pushes millions of Americans towards dangerous surgeries, crash diets, and harmful diet drugs, while we ignore other, more real health problems. Oliver goes on to examine why it is that Americans despise fatness and explores why, despite this revulsion, we continue to gain weight.

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

By: Lindsay C. Gibson 

Learning about childhood relationships with parents who may have been emotionally immature and how to heal from these experiences.

Done with Crying

By: Sheri McGregor 

Exploring estrangement from a mothers perspective. It explores reconciliation along with ways to move past estrangement and taking back control of your life.

When Parents Hurt

By: Joshua Coleman 

Explores estrangement and grief towards the loss of a relationship with a child. Focuses on recognition of what control a parent has towards a relationship that could lead to reconciliation or healing within the estrangement.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Children with Executive Functioning

By: Joyce Cooper-Kahn, Laurie Dietzel

Learn easy-to-follow steps to identify your child’s strengths and weaknesses in getting organized, staying focused, and controlling impulses and emotion by using activities and techniques proven to boost specific skills, and problem-solve daily routines

Smart but Scattered: The Revolutionary “Executive Skills” Approach to Helping Kids Reach Their Potential 

By: Peg Dawson Ed.D., Richard Guare Ph.D.

The latest research in child development shows that many kids who have the brain and heart to succeed lack or lag behind in crucial “executive skills”–the fundamental habits of mind required for getting organized, staying focused, and controlling impulses and emotions. Learn easy-to-follow steps to identify your child’s strengths and weaknesses, use activities and techniques proven to boost specific skills, and problem-solve daily routines. Small changes can add up to big improvements–this empowering book shows how.

Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce-The Sandcastles Way

By: M. Gary Neuman

Based on Gary Neuman’s successful Sandcastles program, this book addresses many of the issues facing families going through a divorce.  The book describes, by age group, how to tell your child about the divorce, how to help them express their feelings, and when your child needs a therapist.

Raising a thinking Preteen

By: Myrna B. Shure, Ph.D

In her best-selling “Raising a Thinking Child”, Myrna Shure introduced her nationally acclaimed “I can problem-solve” program.  This book teaches children between 8 and 12 years old how to think through problems and make decisions on their own.

Helping Your Socially Vulnerable Child: What to Do When Your Child is Shy, Socially Anxious, Withdrawn, or Bullied.

By: Andrew B. Eisen and Linda B. Engler

This book provides coping tools and social skill strategies that you can tailor to your child’s unique social and emotional needs.

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12.

By: Thomas Phelan, Ph.D.,

The revised edition of this award winning book addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience.

When Parents Disagree and What You Can Do About It: How to Raise Great Kids While You Strengthen Your Marriage

By: Dr. Ron Taffel

This book provides a down to earth discussion of the challenges of parenting, and focuses on the challenging issue of parental disagreements, and how to manage them.  We particularly like this books emphasis on the importance of parents working together.

Parenting by Heart: How to stay connected to your child in a disconnected world

By: Dr. Ron Taffel

 We like this book because it emphasizes the importance of parents staying connected with their children and teens. It also offers thoughtful and practical recommendations to parents.

The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children

 By: Ross Greene, PhD

This book details Greene’s innovative approach to working with children (and teens) who are extremely defiant and prone to explosive outbursts.  Greene conceptualizes these children’s difficulties as reflecting weakness in skills and focuses on how to best help these children by working to strengthen their skills and by modifying the expectations that parents and others often place on them.

The Gender Quest Workbook: A Guide for Teens and Young Adults Exploring Gender Identity

By:  Rylan Jay Testa Ph.D., Deborah Coolhart PhD LMFT, & Jayme L. Peta Ph.D.

A workbook that explores gender and sexual identity by utilizing an understanding of labels, interests, and self reflection. 

Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief

By: David Kessler

In 1969, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross first identified the stages of dying in her transformative book On Death and Dying. Decades later, she and David Kessler wrote the classic On Grief and Grieving, introducing the stages of grief with the same transformative pragmatism and compassion. Now, based on hard-earned personal experiences, as well as knowledge and wisdom gained through decades of work with the grieving, Kessler introduces a critical sixth stage: meaning.

Kessler’s insight is both professional and intensely personal. His journey with grief began when, as a child, he witnessed a mass shooting at the same time his mother was dying. For most of his life, Kessler taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about end of life, trauma, and grief, as well as leading talks and retreats for those experiencing grief. Despite his knowledge, his life was upended by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son. How does the grief expert handle such a tragic loss? He knew he had to find a way through this unexpected, devastating loss, a way that would honor his son. That, ultimately, was the sixth stage of grief—meaning. In Finding Meaning, Kessler shares the insights, collective wisdom, and powerful tools that will help those experiencing loss.

Grief Day By Day: Simple Practices and Daily Guidance for Living with Loss

By: Jan Warner

Grief is complex. It is ever changing and may come to us differently on any given day. Grief Day by Day offers reflections and practices that address the day-to-day feelings that accompany the ever changing process of grief.

In Grief Day by Day, Jan Warner draws on the experiences of the 2.5 million followers in her Grief Speaks Out online community to offer hope in its most practical form. This book does not look to offer a solution to grief. Rather, it provides supportive, useful guidance to help you create a life in which peace, and even gratitude, can coexist with your grief.

Inside the pages of Grief Day by Day you’ll find:

365 Daily Reflections that include quotes, meditations, and other musings on griefWeekly Themes that capture common feelings and experiences such as: Loneliness, Things Left Unsaid, Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms, Guilt, and Intimacy52 Healing Exercises that help you process your feelings at the end of each week and develop skills for coping with grief as it arises

There is no “right way” to grieve, and there is no right way to use this book. Whether you follow it page by page, or select that which seems most relevant to you at the moment, how you use this book is less important than why you are using it. You’re using this book because you have chosen to honor your experience, to make a home for your grief, and to find a new way of living on the bridge between loss and life.

Motherless Daughters

By: Hope Edelman

Building on interviews with hundreds of mother-loss survivors, the author’s personal story of losing her mother, recent research in grief and psychology, and with a new afterword exploring how the legacy of mother loss shifts with the passage of time, Motherless Daughters reveals the shared experiences and core identity issues of motherless women:

Why the absence of a nurturing hand shapes a woman’s identity throughout her lifespan
How present-day relationships are defined by past losses
How a woman can resolve past conflicts and move toward acceptance and healing
What grief really is: not a linear passage, but an ongoing cyclical journey

Nothing to Fear: Demystifying Death to Live More Fully

By: Julie McFadden, RN

What if we didn’t consider death the worst possible outcome? What if we discussed it honestly, embraced hospice care, and prepared for the end of our lives with hope and acceptance?
In this compassionate and knowledgeable guide, TikTok star Julie McFadden—known online as “Hospice Nurse Julie”—shares the valuable lessons she’s learned in her fifteen years as an RN in the ICU and in hospice. Expertly interweaving emotional insight and practical advice, Nothing to Fear demystifies end-of-life care for both patients and caregivers, covering topics including:

  • the biological details of dying
  • which medical interventions help and which only make things worse
  • the otherworldly beauty of deathbed phenomena
  • financial and logistical preparations for death
  • facts and myths about hospice care
  • the most important conversations to have before you die
  • the grieving process, before and after death

Sure to be a go-to resource for years to come, McFadden’s first book proves a better death goes hand in hand with a better life.

Practicing Mindfulness: 75 Essential Meditations to Reduce Stress, Improve Mental Health, and Find Peace in the Everyday

By: Matthew Sockolov

Book of 75 mindfulness skills that range from 5 mins to 45 min activities to decrease anxiety and depression and improve the ability to be present in the moment.

The ACT Workbook for OCD: Mindfulness, Acceptance, and Exposure Skills to Live Well with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

By: Marisa T. Mazza, Psy.D.

Stand up to your OCD! The ACT Workbook for OCD combines evidence-based acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) with exposure and response prevention (ERP) for the most up-to-date, effective treatment for obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

If you’re one of millions of people who suffer from OCD, you may experience obsessive, intrusive, or even disturbing thoughts. You may engage in compulsive or ritualistic behaviors, such as checking to make sure you’ve locked the front door, or endlessly washing your hands for fear of germs or contamination. And you may be tempted to give up if treatment just doesn’t work for you.

Whether you’ve just received a diagnosis, or have suffered for years, this workbook can help. Using the powerful and proven-effective treatments in this guide, you’ll learn what type of OCD you suffer from (such as harm OCD), how to identify the underlying mechanisms of your OCD, move through triggering incidents while staying present and connected to your values, be more aware and flexible, tolerate uncertainty, and commit to behaviors that ultimately allow you to lead a full, rewarding life. Once you realize what really matters to you, you’ll find the motivation needed to start on the path to psychological well-being.

If you’re ready to be courageous, take a risk, and stand up to your OCD symptoms, this workbook can help guide you, every step of the way.

The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD: Lean into Your Fear, Manage Difficult Emotions, and Focus On Recovery

By: Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT

A compassionate guide to help you manage OCD symptoms, overcome feelings of shame and stigma, and revitalize your life!

If you’re one of millions who suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), you’re all-too-familiar with feelings of anxiety, panic, shame, and uncertainty. In addition, the stigma associated with OCD can make you feel unworthy of receiving the compassion and kindness you need and deserve. You may even experience unwanted intrusive thoughts that result in harsh self-judgment—which can actually hinder your recovery and lead to additional mental health problems. So, how can you break this destructive cycle and start feeling better?

The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD outlines a step-by-step program to help you understand the emotional experience of OCD, and develop the tools you need to manage your disorder and build a better life. Drawing on a powerful combination of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), exposure and response prevention (ERP), and compassion-focused therapy (CFT), this breakthrough guide will teach you how to balance intense emotions, lean into your fear, and focus on recovery. Over time, you’ll learn to replace self-judgment with kindness and self-compassion, so you can stop suffering and start thriving.

Living with OCD can be extremely challenging, but it doesn’t have to rob you of your self-worth. You are so much more than your disorder! Let this book be your guide to discovering, supporting, and loving the best you that you can be.

Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts

By: Sally M. Winston Psy.D., Martin N. Seif Ph.D.

You are not your thoughts! In this powerful book, two anxiety experts offer proven-effective cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) skills to help you get unstuck from disturbing thoughts, overcome the shame these thoughts can bring, and reduce your anxiety.

If you suffer from unwanted, intrusive, frightening, or even disturbing thoughts, you might worry about what these thoughts mean about you. Thoughts can seem like messages—are they trying to tell you something? But the truth is that they are just thoughts, and don’t necessarily mean anything. Sane and good people have them. If you are someone who is plagued by thoughts you don’t want—thoughts that scare you, or thoughts you can’t tell anyone about—this book may change your life.

In this compassionate guide, you’ll discover the different kinds of disturbing thoughts, myths that surround your thoughts, and how your brain has a tendency to get “stuck” in a cycle of unwanted rumination. You’ll also learn why common techniques to get rid of these thoughts can backfire. And finally, you’ll learn powerful cognitive behavioral skills to help you cope with and move beyond your thoughts, so you can focus on living the life you want. Your thoughts will still occur, but you will be better able to cope with them—without dread, guilt, or shame.

If you have unwanted thoughts, you should remember that you aren’t alone. In fact, there are millions of people just like you—good people who have awful thoughts, gentle people with violent thoughts, and sane people with “crazy” thoughts. This book will show you how to move past your thoughts so you can reclaim your life!

Needing to Know for Sure: A CBT-Based Guide to Overcoming Compulsive Checking and Reassurance Seeking

By: Sally M. Winston Psy.D., Martin N. Seif Ph.D.

Powerful skills based in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you break free from the fear of uncertainty and put a stop to compulsive checking and reassurance seeking.

“How do I know I made the right decision?” “What if I’m wrong?” “I need to know for sure.”

Do you have thoughts like these—thoughts that cause you to second-guess yourself, and lead to anxiety, stress, and worry? Do you find yourself repeatedly checking your email for no reason, asking others for their opinions about something again and again, or lying awake at night overanalyzing and planning ahead in an attempt to feel less anxious? If so, you probably have a problem with compulsive reassurance seeking. The good news is that you can break free from this “reassurance trap”—this book will show you how.

In this unique guide, you’ll find proven-effective tips and tools using CBT to help you tolerate uncertainty, face specific worrying scenarios, and gradually reduce the compulsion to incessantly seek reassurance. Most importantly, you’ll learn to deal with those pesky “doubt attacks” and trust your own judgment.

Asking for reassurance is a self-reinforcing behavior—if you do it, you’re less likely to handle stressful situations without needing further reassurance. And so the cycle continues. The CBT skills in this book will help you break this exhausting and painful pattern, so you can build self-confidence and improve your life.

“Pure O” OCD: Letting Go of Obsessive Thoughts with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

By: Chad LeJeune Ph.D.

Let go of the struggle and obsess less. With this unique guide, you’ll find the tools you need to get unstuck from obsessive thoughts, overcome fears, feel more grounded, and live a life that truly reflects your values. 

Pure obsessional obsessive-compulsive disorder, or “Pure O” OCD, is a subtype of OCD that is characterized by intrusive thoughts, images, or urges without any visible compulsive symptoms.  Instead, obsessive worry, regret, or uncertainty is accompanied by “hidden” compulsions like reassurance seeking, avoidance, or complex thought rituals. This can lead to decisions based on fears and compulsions rather than grounded in your values. The efforts to stop or change obsessive thoughts only leads to more anxiety and fear. So, how do you break this obsessive cycle?

Grounded in acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and written by a renowned ACT and anxiety expert, “Pure O” OCD explains the process of “cognitive fusion” that leads to obsessive thinking, and how efforts to avoid or control our thoughts reinforce the fusion in an unhelpful, positive feedback loop. Using the five skills in the book—labeling, letting go, acceptance, mindfulness, and proceeding with purpose—you’ll learn how to finally break free of the struggle, worrying, and avoidance that keeps you stuck.

With practice, you’ll find that you can change your relationship to anxiety and obsessive thoughts, responding with your own values-based choices, proceeding purposefully toward a life that reflects what matters most to you.

The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children

By: Ross W. Greene

Dr. Ross Greene is a distinguished researcher and clinician in the treatment of kids with extreme emotional and behavioral problems.  In his book, he discusses how these children are not attention-seeking or manipulative, but instead are lacking some crucial skills in the areas of flexibility/adaptability, frustration tolerance and problem-solving and, therefore, require a  different approach to parenting.

The Challenging Child

By: Stanley Greenspan, M.D.

Child Psychiatrist, Dr. Stanley Greenspan, describes ways to understand, raise and enjoy the five “difficult,” types of children: the Highly Sensitive Child; the Self-Absorbed Child; the Defiant Child; the Inattentive Child and the Active/Aggressive Child.

Setting Limits with your Strong-Willed Child: Eliminating Conflict by Establishing Clear, Firm, and Respectful Boundaries.

By: Robert MacKenzie, Ed.D

For the family with a high level of parent-child conflict, this book will help you understand and empathize without giving in, hold your ground without threatening, remove deadly power struggles and give clear, firm messages that your child respects.

Your Defiant Child: Eight Steps to Better Behavior

By: Russell Barkley and Christine Benton

This book clearly explains what causes defiance, when it becomes a problem and how it can be resolved.  The 8-step program stresses consistency and cooperation, promoting changes through a system of praise, rewards and mild punishment.

Try and Make Me: Simple Strategies That Turn Off the Tantrums and Create Cooperation

By: Roy Levy, Bill O’Hanlon and Tyler Norris Goode

The authors are family therapists who provide clear and easy  to understand advice on how to deal with your child’s tantrums.

The Defiant Child: A Parent’s Guide to Oppositional Defiant Disorder

By: Dr. Douglas A. Riley

In this book, Dr. Riley, a Child and Adolescent Psychologist, teaches parents how to recognize the signs, understand the attitudes, and modify the behavior of their oppositional child.

Black Girls Breathing: Heal from Trauma, Combat Chronic Stress, and Find Your Freedom

By: Jasmine Marie

Harness the power of breathwork with this compassionate, healing guide for Black women.

As a Black woman, Jasmine Marie knows the impact that intergenerational trauma and systemic racism have had—and continue to have—on her community. Those experiences, along with her own journey through chronic stress, are why she created black girls breathing®, a movement dedicated to helping Black women understand the power of the mind‑body connection and its impact on their holistic health, one breath at a time.

Sharing breathwork exercises from her unique somatic philosophies, proven by data and utilized by tens of thousands of participants to date, Jasmine Marie will help you:  Connect more fully to your body Give yourself permission to rest Heal the chronic stress you carry in your body and nervous system Address emotional pain Rebuild your sense of self and your community
Black Girls Breathing is a long-overdue resource for every Strong Black Woman—the woman ready to break cycles of trauma, heal the internalized beliefs of perfectionism and conditional self‑worth, and follow the wisdom of her inner voice.

The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love

By: Sonya Renee Taylor

Humans are a varied and divergent bunch with all manner of beliefs, morals, and bodies. Systems of oppression thrive off our inability to make peace with difference and injure the relationship we have with our own bodies.

The Body Is Not an Apology offers radical self-love as the balm to heal the wounds inflicted by these violent systems. World-renowned activist and poet Sonya Renee Taylor invites us to reconnect with the radical origins of our minds and bodies and celebrate our collective, enduring strength. As we awaken to our own indoctrinated body shame, we feel inspired to awaken others and to interrupt the systems that perpetuate body shame and oppression against all bodies. When we act from this truth on a global scale, we usher in the transformative opportunity of radical self-love, which is the opportunity for a more just, equitable, and compassionate world—for us all.

My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies

By: Resmaa Menakem

In this groundbreaking book, therapist Resmaa Menakem examines the damage caused by racism in America from the perspective of trauma and body-centered psychology.

The body is where our instincts reside and where we fight, flee, or freeze, and it endures the trauma inflicted by the ills that plague society. Menakem argues this destruction will continue until Americans learn to heal the generational anguish of white supremacy, which is deeply embedded in all our bodies. Our collective agony doesn’t just affect African Americans. White Americans suffer their own secondary trauma as well. So do blue Americans—our police.

My Grandmother’s Hands is a call to action for all of us to recognize that racism is not only about the head, but about the body, and introduces an alternative view of what we can do to grow beyond our entrenched racialized divide.

Paves the way for a new, body-centered understanding of white supremacy—how it is literally in our blood and our nervous system.

Offers a step-by-step healing process based on the latest neuroscience and somatic healing methods, in addition to incisive social commentary.

 

Worn but Whole: Poems of Healing, Black Womanhood, and the Journey to Wholeness

By: Mara J.

An intimate and transformative collection of poetry that captures the essence of emotional resilience, vulnerability, and self-discovery. Through the lens of Black womanhood, these poems reflect the universal human experiences of love, loss, pain, and healing. With each carefully crafted verse, the author, Mara J., invites readers to embrace their most fragile moments, rise above adversity, and find strength in the process of becoming whole.

This collection is a celebration of survival and triumph, a poetic testament to the beauty of turning wounds into wisdom. Whether you’re navigating heartache, reclaiming your identity, or seeking solace in the face of life’s challenges, Worn but Whole offers a powerful reminder that there is strength in vulnerability, and true wholeness comes from within. Perfect for anyone on a journey of self-healing, this book will resonate with those who understand that the path to wholeness is a brave and ongoing process.

 

The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You

By: Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D.

In The Highly Sensitive Person, you’ll discover self-assessment tests to pinpoint your sensitivities and strategies for reframing past experiences to enhance self-esteem. The book offers insights into how high sensitivity affects both work and personal relationships, along with tips for managing over-stimulation.

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

By: Sean PrattBessel A. van der Kolk, et al.

The connection between our mind and body when trauma and mental health affect it. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust.

The Deepest Well: Healing the Long-term Effects of Childhood Adversity

By: Nadine Burke Harris M.D.

Dr. Nadine Burke Harris was already known as a crusading physician delivering targeted care to vulnerable children. But it was Diego — a boy who had stopped growing after a sexual assault — who galvanized her journey to uncover the connections between toxic stress and lifelong illnesses.

The stunning news of Burke Harris’s research is just how deeply our bodies can be imprinted by ACEs–adverse childhood experiences like abuse, neglect, parental addiction, mental illness, and divorce. Childhood adversity changes our biological systems, and lasts a lifetime. For anyone who has faced a difficult childhood, or who cares about the millions of children who do, the fascinating scientific insight and innovative, acclaimed health interventions in The Deepest Well represent vitally important hope for preventing lifelong illness for those we love and for generations to come​